Vanessa Hudgens

Can a health shock/scare cause you to have depression/lack of feelings?

I may have depression since I’ve lost interest in the stuff I used to like, I’m disconnected from my emotions and the worst part is… it’s making me lose feelings for my boyfriend. I’ve never felt this way before. I’m sure that I love my boyfriend with all my heart but ever since I lost the feeling of happiness, hopefulness and the like, things just haven’t been feeling the same with him.

But it’s not just my boyfriend, sometimes when I don’t think about him and instead I think about the things that aren’t related to him, it still feels the same. The things I like doing like dancing and playing flag football don’t feel the same anymore…

This all started when I freaked out and panicked about getting hemorrhoids.. I thought it was something deadly and ’serious’ (even if it wasn’t).. it was the first time I experienced it and I totally felt humiliated that I had it, shocked and utterly scared. I was asking myself over and over again, “Why me?” And I was just so sad..I let my spirits drop. During that time, I realized I couldn’t feel much for anything since I was just so tired to feel afraid and embarrassed… I freaked out even more when I couldn’t feel anything for my boyfriend. We were watching TV and things just didn’t feel the same all of a sudden…! I cried the whole night once I discovered that I might have lost feelings for him because I really couldn’t believe it. I love him so much, how can this be happening? I asked myself.. the next day, I didn’t feel so well from crying the whole night. My eyes were swollen and I had a slight fever. My nose was clogged and I had a bad cold… I couldn’t smell anything… that’s how it started..

I also feel like I’m living in a dream because I’ve never been un-emotional AT ALL. It’s like I don’t remember how I used to feel…

Sometimes I just worry even if I’m not thinking about anything, I just…worry and worry and there’s a tightening in my chest because I know something is just…not right or missing… People say I’m overthinking everything and I over analyze everything and I just need to calm down but I can’t calm down because it’s the LOVE OF MY LIFE I’m dealing with… I can’t lose it. I can’t lose him.

I really want to gain my feelings back for him and to look forward to the things I used to look forward too. Please help me.. Will it ever come back? If I get better will I start loving and being happy again? Back to my normal self? I don’t want to break up with him just because I can’t feel anything it’s so unfair .. It’s hurting me so much… I can’t believe it when I get near him it’s like I’m so nervous because I don’t feel anything and I hate it…

**Please don’t say, “You don’t really love your boyfriend if you can’t feel it, just end it. Because I KNOW what I’m supposed to feel for him. I love him and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t. He means so much to me. Please.

Any advice?

treatment of hemorrhoid ? OTC?

Hello
lately i have been suffering from hemorrhoid, lucky it is internal hemorrhoid so there is no pain, rarely a little pain, I’m 21 years old male, weight: 202.6 lbs (92 kg) im overweight with very bad diet last 2 years which led to my overweight,
i know it is late but im trying to fix my diet now.

I thought of going to the hospital but unfortunately I don’t have time at all im very busy, and even if i have i don’t think I will go

anyway, any tips about my condition ? and is there any drugs [over the counter] i can buy from the pharmacy which will help me ?
thanks in advance
I know there’s drugs OTC, name please?

Which type of plastic is safe to use with hot (not boiling) water?

I must add that I need to sit in a small plastic tub to heal a hemorrhoid.

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Thanks!

MEN : hemorrhoids surgery….?

How long did it take you to recover ? Did you have to use “pads” until you were healed ?
incontinence, “accidents” , soft diet , etc…??!!!
I appreciate any feedbacks!!

To get hemorrhoid relief, what should I use?

I am using just preparation-H and I am not satisfied with it.

Could this be an internal hemorrhoid? NOT gross picture included!?

okay so every week or so (for the past 3 weeks) I notice this blood-type looking thing in my stool.

The Non-gross picture is linked below (its JUST the red hemorrhoid, i should say hopefully a hemorrhoid, on toilet paper)

Does this look like a hemorrhoid? I think it might be because ever since this started my a$$hole has been extremely sore. To sit and even stand at times can really irritate it.
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I had anal sex at the end of November and today have my first hemorrhoid. Could the anal sex have caused this?

I had my first anal sex experience back in late November. Today, I had my first external hemorrhoid. I have read that anal sex can cause hemorrhoids, but do you think this is the case since it’s about 2 months later? How long does it take an external hemorrhoid to become exposed/noticeable/painful?

Hemorrhoid treatments?

I’m pretty sure I have a hemorrhoid but it doesn’t bleed and it doesn’t itch/burn. But it is a bump and it’s been there for awhile. It doesn’t bother me so I haven’t done anything about it but now I heard that it can get worse if you don’t treat it. So what works best to treat it? Prep H or something?

How can I tell the difference between and hemorrhoid and a cut?

I have a red area that protrudes from my anus but a very small amount and is very tender to the touch. I am only 20 years old and rarely experience constipation so I don’t know why I would have hemorrhoids. I have had it for a few weeks and figured it was a cut at first but it still hasn’t healed. I don’t really wanna go to the doctor if it is just a cut because I think that it would be weird to have an old man stare at my asshole. Please help. And can anything bad happen if I just wait for it to heal up on it’s own? Any ideas to ease the pain or speed the healing process up?

Is this hemorrhoids or what?

EXTREMELY bad anal itching and also some itching around my vag. Anyone know what it could be and how to relieve pain?